
Body Language Basics: Win Over Your Audience
by Ed Barks
Your audience is keeping an eagle eye on you as you speak. Yes, they are listening to your words. But they are also soaking up every gesture and vocal change you display. How important are these nonverbal cues?
To better answer that question, let’s examine the story from a different angle. Imagine yourself not as the speaker, but as an audience member.
The Deadly Drone vs. the Shining Star
Picture in your mind the times you have attended presentations and couldn’t wait to escape the room. The speaker may have been a world renowned expert in his topic with top notch content. But he stood still in the dark while using slides as a crutch. Or spoke in a monotone. Or avoided all eye contact with the audience. Neglecting to utilize critical nonverbal communication methods, he soon lulled everyone to sleep.
Now, consider a brighter scene, one in which you witnessed a mesmerizing speaker. He shared not only fascinating insights, but did so in an engaging manner by utilizing his nonverbal skills masterfully. If you looked around the room, you likely saw your fellow audience members on the edges of their seats, paying rapt attention.
Why does this matter? Consider these organizational and career benefits:
- A healthier bottom line
- A shinier brand
- An increase in sales
- A better job
Breaking Down Your Nonverbal Tools
Your Video tools (the way you look) and Audio tools (the way you sound) help transmit your message in a more persuasive fashion. But don’t think for one moment that, because you can summon a raise of the eyebrow or modulate your rate of speech, you have mastered the ability to communicate in public.
Your nonverbal tools pave the way for smoother acceptance of your message, yet they will not, in and of themselves, deliver it for you.
Regular reviews of your nonverbal performance when you speak in public, deal with reporters, and petition public officials is mandatory if you plan to increase influence for yourself and your organization. Assess your Video tools and Audio tools every few months. Shine a spotlight on your strong points when you speak. Work over the long run to either improve those qualities you find challenging or eliminate them from your repertoire.
Winning the High Stakes Game
The stakes are high when you communicate in public—too high to risk a nonverbal faux pas. Win your audiences' attention and respect by using your nonverbal skills. Your next new client, big sale, promotion, or public affairs victory may hang in the balance.
© Edward J. Barks 2012
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Ed Barks leads communications training workshops for executives who want to enhance their reputations, and for organizations that want to achieve their long-term business goals. He also speaks before association and corporate meetings to help employees and members sharpen their communications edge. He is the author of The Truth About Public Speaking: The Three Keys to Great Presentations and President of Barks Communications. Learn more at www.barkscomm.com. Contact Ed at (540) 955-0600 or via e-mail.
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